What does Horse Ownership mean to you?

by Elaine Polny
(Palgrave, Ontario, Canada)

"You can't OWN me!"

My doggy friends (Nika -on left & Karma-on the right)

I would like to pose a question:

“What can we really “own” in this world?”

Sure we often use phrases to express our ownership like, I own a car, I own a pair of shoes and that seems sensible when describing material and/or personal belongings.

However, when it comes to “living” things and I include the earth (land, trees, oceans, sky etc,) in this category, what can we really “own”? With people’s never ending concern regarding possessions we feel it necessary to divvy up the commodities. So we say, “I own this piece of land, but do we really? Is it more accurate to say, “I am merely the guardian and caretaker of it?”. After all I cannot own it forever. And to try and comprehend that a Country can “own” the sky above me seems confining and odd.

But my bigger concern with this is how we choose to place the “lives” of our children, horses, dogs etc within this “ownership” category. How can I possibly “own” my child? Is he for sale if I wanted to trade him in for another model? (Yip, it's crossed my mind! :0) How much of a horse do we think we “own”? His mind? His body? His semen? I thought humans decided that life was priceless! But clearly we have made exceptions. It appears that we make the “lives” of our animals (and in some cases humans too!) into an economical commodity for nothing more than financial gain. This is obvious in our race track and showing/competition “industries”. Why else to we use the terminology, The Horse Industry?!


I am not looking to debate "why" we buy, sell and compete with horses, dogs etc., it’s being done and I do not see the compassion or humanity in any of it. I am simply noticing that if I view my horse as a living creature with the same free will to choose as I have (since it is obvious to me that they can in fact make a choice), then a huge door to our understanding one another opens. I feel it is more accurate, inspiring and useful if I view my role with the horses as a companion, guardian or caregiver than an owner.

From my previous experiences, I discovered I am lousy at “selling” horses. I went to “buy” one once and brought home two! (because I felt sorry for them in their living conditions.) With the full intention of training and “re-selling” one of them. Well, its 11 years later and I still have both!

If I ever find myself in an unfortunate circumstance where I needed to find another home for any of the animals in my care then I would do just that, find them another “home” not an “owner”. No amount of financial gain would comfort me through such a decision.
But that’s just me, everyone’s journey is different.

I welcome your inspiring thoughts………,

Elaine Polny

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What does Horse Ownership mean to you?

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Dec 04, 2010
Beautiful!
by: Kelly

Beautifully written, beautifully said. I am new to the, what I also coined, "ownership" of my new horse Bayley. As I am getting to know him and who he is as living breathing creature, he is amazing to me. I wrote u last week regarding his "dominance" issues. Since then he had put his hind legs through a fence and got all tangled. He cut his legs up pretty bad and has been on stall rest. I was able to help give his antibiotic injections and oral meds(which I now know horses do not like) all week so I felt I earned his trust. I felt he knew I was there to help him and care for him. He was boarded in the stall just like a person would be boarded in bed. So I brought treats and spent time. They are just "being" like we are. It is hard that he had such and accident in the first month Of us coming together but in a strange way I think it was a good thing. I mentioned I was nervous with him before and yet when it came to taking care of him I have been quiet calm. I have a disabled son whom is now 23. I have been taking care of him all his life as well as raising 3 other kids and I think that "Mom" mode just kicked in with Bayley. So it was so nice to read your post tonight. It just all seemed to fit. Thanks for the inspiration and the smile :)

Dec 03, 2010
I agree totally
by: Vicki /Australia

I am fortunate enough to have 3 wonderful equine friends living at my property. One is 32 and came to live with us at the age of 16, another is 15 and came after he was 'no good' for anything else about 5 years ago and finally a young friend who has come to live out his life with us is 11 and is understanding slowly that we are all friends and don't wish to cause or create harm.
I would have so many more of these beautiful animals if I was able unfortunately I'm not. However I will always make room for a horse in need of a home to offer love and healthy environment with friends to the end.
I feel they offer me so much more than I am able to return but I try. I am the LUCKY one:) and so happy I am able to live where I do and do what I do with assistance of these wonderful four legged equine wonders.

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